All my life I got it in the wrong order. I thought getting attached to people helped me achieve a state of love and happiness. Now I understand one can only access love from a place of contentment within. And contentment comes from not getting attached to people and outcomes. It's letting people, situations and things be whatever they want be. Not in a 'they can walk all over me' kind of way, but truly deciding 'I'm not getting affected by external world, I'm okay no matter what'.
I have read that 'people choose familiar hell than unfamiliar heaven'. I want to redefine that to include the grit and resilience of human beings. We choose to master a hell before making it the heaven which suits our needs than get a 'ready-made' heaven. Because we are inherently creators. We create, we transform, we transition. We are alchemists. The creators of our reality. And we find heaven in the same people where there was only hell at one point. Not by changing them in any way, but by changing ourselves. By mastering ourselves and thus mastering our reality.
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