In this age of feminism and women empowerment, wanting a companion/partner, in my experience, is being looked down. If a woman says she is perfectly happy being single and all she wants to do is explore things on her own, she is applauded and encouraged. While this is a valid experience and many women wanting this are considered badass and great, why are women who want a partner looked down upon. But on the other hand men and society, in general, look down upon women who want to do it alone. Why does it have to be this or that? These are different and valid expressions of the same love and joy one feels within. As long as one is doing something from true joy and excitement, and not from desperation, each path is valid.
I have read that 'people choose familiar hell than unfamiliar heaven'. I want to redefine that to include the grit and resilience of human beings. We choose to master a hell before making it the heaven which suits our needs than get a 'ready-made' heaven. Because we are inherently creators. We create, we transform, we transition. We are alchemists. The creators of our reality. And we find heaven in the same people where there was only hell at one point. Not by changing them in any way, but by changing ourselves. By mastering ourselves and thus mastering our reality.
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