My love for people is a 'let them' kind of love. I let people be. I may tell them when they are making bad choices but if they are adamant that they must make that choice, I let them. And I don't tell them 'I told you so' if/when they end up where I foresaw where they would end up. I know it's okay. It's their path and their way of making mistakes and learning from them. My job is to support them through it all.
I have read that 'people choose familiar hell than unfamiliar heaven'. I want to redefine that to include the grit and resilience of human beings. We choose to master a hell before making it the heaven which suits our needs than get a 'ready-made' heaven. Because we are inherently creators. We create, we transform, we transition. We are alchemists. The creators of our reality. And we find heaven in the same people where there was only hell at one point. Not by changing them in any way, but by changing ourselves. By mastering ourselves and thus mastering our reality.
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