After a while you just learn to live with the pain. It never goes away. It will be there, sometimes in the background, or as a dull ache; while you go on living, laugh with friends, have fun and adventures and have all sorts of experiences. It gives the contrast for you to live a fulfilling life. The key is to never let it overwhelm you, but just let it be there, reminding you of loss and impermanence of everything.
I have read that 'people choose familiar hell than unfamiliar heaven'. I want to redefine that to include the grit and resilience of human beings. We choose to master a hell before making it the heaven which suits our needs than get a 'ready-made' heaven. Because we are inherently creators. We create, we transform, we transition. We are alchemists. The creators of our reality. And we find heaven in the same people where there was only hell at one point. Not by changing them in any way, but by changing ourselves. By mastering ourselves and thus mastering our reality.
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